Aimee
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Christopher
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Our History
Going back and looking at how we started being a couple isn’t an easy
story to tell, because there is different points of view, and different
ways of seeing how our relationship grew.
For me, this is my side, and Aimee will tell her side later.
It began when I was healing from another relationship, and moved from
New Brunswick to Nova Scotia with my parents, when my father got a
transfer from his job to a new territory.
I moved to a new City, at the age of 25, and to be honest, it isn't as
if I was a child, but it was 2000, and I had a new home, and lots of
times to meet new people, and to be honest, I've always been anti
social, never been one to really be to outgoing to meet new people right
off the bat, so I turned to chat.
I started to find some Christian chat networks, and they were always so
amass in their own politics, that it took a lot of fun out of it, so I
drifted between many of them to try and find a "Home"
With some other friends that I have made we drifted to a Network, which
I will not name, and we meet these two girls, one I'll just call Sally
and Aimee, the two would always be fighting over anything and
everything, but both of them, were very depressed, chemically that is.
I learned much from Aimee, and we began our friendship there, and I
believe it was Sept of 2000; I'll probably have to edit this after I get
the facts straight on the date, which would be funny, because the month
of September is very meaningful to us.
My relationship with Aimee as friends grew and matured a lot, we were
able to speak into each other in ways that no one else could, when it
came to talking about serious things we were there, and that was then
when I was able to help guide Aimee towards her healing towards finding
a way to deal with her depression, cause together we were able to
realistically deal with that issue.
She may look back at this now and think that was a bad time of her life,
and that is right it was, but looking back it is living proof of how our
love, our trust, our devotion to ourselves was the ability to heal.
And that’s how our friendship grew, we helped each other in our
depressions, in our issues, our family our lives, and regardless of what
others would like to believe, it was real.
She was not my girl friend, just my friend, and though we had our issues
with the opposite sex, mine was much much more complex, and yeah I do
have my regrets, and things I'm proud of, but more importantly we spent
years developing our relationship that we had with each other.
I really felt that we had a good friendship, and we really cared about
each other.
Over the years, Aimee had to leave chat, and our means of our
relationship and friendship was forged over e-mail, the phone, and
letters, and I truly believe that we really had great thing going.
And that is how we built our relationship.
Time went off, and things were not always perfect, but we always tried.
During the Early 2005 to the Summer I had left chat, to deal with
illnesses, and Aimee had left for out west for work like a lot of young
people in Canada.
She was much abused at her job there, and came home, and though I had
left chat, and had a new phone number, she was able to by the grace of
God find it.
Aimee called me, and we started our relationship, and then things got
majorly different, we started to talk every day, and it wasn't much
longer till we realized that we couldn't live with out each others call,
and our calls got longer and longer.
And one day we realized just how much we really cared about each other,
and that we wanted to pursue a romantic relationship with each other.
And it wasn't to much later that we agreed that we wanted to spend some
time together physically, so for my 31st Birthday, I flew up to meet her
in Ontario.
I spent practically a week with her in Ontario, and we enjoyed ourselves
getting to know each other better, personally, and our love for each
other was confirmed.
When I got home, and again we were apart it was so hard on each other,
we just wanted to have time with each other.
And it wasn’t too much longer that we planed for Aimee to move here with
me, and it was on April 15th that she finally moved to Halifax.
We moved to a nice part of town, and we built our relationship, and as
of August 18th, 2007 we have been married, and I'm still chewing at her
to write her side!.
